Trans Terms TENI offers these general descriptions to help in the understanding, respect and inclusion of transgender identities and experiences. Too Queer for Your Binary: Everything You Need to Know and More About Non-Binary Identities. March 4, by Kaylee Jakubowski. 1. The sex/gender distinction. The terms ‘sex’ and ‘gender’ mean different things to different feminist theorists and neither are easy or straightforward to characterise.